Whatever I am writing - is based on my personal experience with life. It’s just like life has become a book or certification for me. Similar I found with Mr. M K Gandhi "The Father of Nation? India". He wrote about his experience with truth. I am inspired because writing is best way to express all your feelings that you can’t do elsewhere.
Till date? I am unmarried. I have just started my career as an associate consultant. I believe consultant acts as a confusing mechanism to a client. Provide options not a decision. Well I am straightforward and honest. I have doubt to what extend and how long will I continue with all falsehood of business. Anyway this is expression time.
My elder sister is a center of my life. I never find absence of love, friendship or guardian till I am with my sister. Once I was far? The first letter I learned was "L" and word was "Love". Even you start loving your age girl in your college days. It is becoming fashion! Get a bike? Girl friend is free. Cost is only petrol. You be at Canteen, no class, all types of festivals and days in campus.
Sometime I was worried about my common man inside. I never did in my graduation. I had given lift only to one girl who was my enemy but by default she was a member of my industrial project study.
Well I have not so many words to express my love and friendship. You generally express what you have rather you missed. Right?
First of all I dislike thinking about love as any physical act. What we call romanticism. Romeo and Juliet? A Great Love Story. Well it was. But it is our style to misunderstand everything. (I may also do same thing!) But Thomas Moore says, "Romantic love is an illusion. Most of us discover this truth at the end of a love affair or else when the sweet emotions of love lead us into marriage and then turn down their flames." I 100 % agree with the statement.
At this moment? I get another tragedy. Few of my friends were really in deep love. I don’t know its meaning please! Graduation was over. Those who were unable to create their future，including them too. There is a French proverb: "Love makes the time pass. Time makes love pass." It is ok to love someone else if you know how to love yourself first! Understand love first. Love is not a girl for a friend and vice versa. It is not a feeling. It is not an attraction. Definitely love is not a time pass at all.
There is an edge in our region: "Never wait for bus, train and a girl. If you missed one, another will come." But Gentleman “What are you doing at all?" You have to catch one.
It is really tough to define love for one. We all have different meanings of love. It depends on psychology of different minds. For any Road to Romeo? Seating on cross roads and looking passionately thinking all nightmare dreams is love. For any highly knowledgeable studying at college impressing classmates and taking city round just like a guide is a love. For any typical clerk marrying a caste girl and seating on seashore? Planning future having number of children is true love. So many examples!
On the same situation Leo Tolstoy says "If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love."
Well let me express few words on my experience. My love is always based on expectation of true friendship. For most of people family love may be messy, clinging, and of an annoying and repetitive pattern. But it is not of my case. I find true meaning of love when I put my first step far from my sister.
You know - Sisters touch your heart in ways no other could. Sisters share... their hopes, their fears, their love, everything they have. Real friendship springs from their special bonds.
My weakness is I easily fall in love. And probably I love to write on love although I have been a poor unsuccessful story. But I am one of the luckiest fellows who have got love since birth in advance.
I always look a person like my sister in a girl whom I love. Sorry I am attaching love with girl. Love has no physical entity. Still let’s take a girl, my age girl. 2-3 years above and down difference is ok. Out of my life’s six choices, most of which are "Salwar Kameez" (an Indian dress material) just like my sister. They were bold enough to talk at the same time able to understand situation. In short similar to my sister.
What does it mean? We love people on the basis of some attributes. Even you check out with your experience. Most of us will agree with me finding same attributes or characteristics in a person whom we loved.
I don’t know what is Love? I don’t know what is Friendship? I don’t know anything? I just want a person who can understand my feelings，my nature，my problems and me. If I want to meet her or if I want to talk to her, I don’t need a reason. Why do I insist to get my love that can marry me? because I will not need a permission of her husband if I want to talk to her.
We rarely understand but always feel it that love，friend and marriage have least degree of control on over physical body rather our mind. Your love is your strength. It is the basis of your existence.
"Love is something far more than desire for sexual intercourse; it is the principal means of escape from the loneliness that afflicts most men and women throughout the greater part of their lives." Says Bertrand Russell.
Your love may hurt you any day, as everything that comes has to go. Even my sister will get married one day. My friend whom I loved said she wished to be, as friends rather love. I am happy because she talks to me whenever I need. I have not done anything for her. There are many people who dislike me where I have few people who like me without any reason.
We always need to thank for giving such beautiful and kind relations in life. If you are in age of 12 to 28, you will feel it. Once you pass it, you will understand the reality that I don’t know yet.
Well if you are meeting to your true love today, convey my best wishes!
不管我寫什么文章--那都是我根據我個人的生活閱歷寫出來的。對我而言，寫作就和生活一樣，因此生活也成了一本書或者是一個證明。我發現我和“印度國父”甘地先生一樣--他寫的個人經歷也都是真實的。我寫作時很有靈感，因為寫作是表達感情的最好方法。
直到約會?因為我還沒有結婚。我已經開始了我的職業生涯--做助理咨詢顧問工作。我們向客戶提供選擇而不是決策，所以對客戶來說，我認為咨詢師做的這工作很讓人困惑。而我這人又為人誠實，性格直爽。我不知道該拓展什么，還有，那些生意上的虛偽何時能才夠結束。不管怎么說，那都是一段讓我印象深刻的時期。
姐姐在我生命中很重要，和姐姐在一起，我從來沒有缺少過愛情、友情和保護。可是我一走遠后?從第一封信中我懂得的是"L", 而這個單詞就是" Love "。甚至在你上大學時，你剛開始愛上一個比你大的女孩--這很時髦。買輛自行車?可女朋友是不花錢的，要花錢的話也只不過是花點汽油費。沒有課的時候，你們或許在餐廳，或者是參加學校里的各種各樣的節日慶祝活動。
有時，我挺擔心我內心世界里的那個普通人--我自己，不過，我沒有在我畢業的時候那樣做。我只順便捎帶一個女孩，她還是我的敵人，可碰巧她還是我的工業項目研究的一個成員。
我沒有太多的言語來表達我內心的愛情和友誼，而你們通常所表達的是你們擁有的而不是你們失去的，對吧?
關鍵是我不喜歡有人把愛情說成是肢體行為的看法，那我們認為什么才是浪漫的呢，是羅密歐和朱利葉浪漫故事?他們的愛情確實是偉大的。然而，我們總是這樣錯誤理解，也許，我也犯了同樣的錯誤!托馬斯?莫爾說：“浪漫的愛情只是一個虛幻。很多人到他們結束一段感情，或者是走向婚姻，或者是他們愛情的火焰熄滅的時候，他們才明白這個道理。” 我是100%同意他的這種說法的。
這個時候?我又碰到了不幸的事了。我有幾個朋友正在熱戀，天那，我真不知道戀愛是什么東西!畢業過去了，可戀愛并不能夠給他們的未來帶來什么--還有他們自己。法國有一條諺語說：“愛情打發時間，時間打發愛情。” 如果你都知道怎么愛自己，那么再去愛別人的話，那當然很好了。談戀愛不是一個女孩追一個男孩，也不是一個男孩追一個女孩。戀愛不是一段感情，也不是一種吸引，確切地說，愛情并不是虛度光陰。
我們地區的一個地方有個說法是：“絕對不要為了一趟公共汽車，一列火車，或者是一個女孩而等待。如果你錯過了，另一個會出現的。” 可是，紳士們你們看看，“你們正在做什么呢?”你們必須追到一個。
說實在的，真的很難確定到底愛不愛一個人。我們對愛情都有不同的定義，而且，這還要看下一個人的心理因素。為了條條大道通向你的羅密歐?坐在十字路口，心血澎湃地張望，還有白日夢里的所有東西都是愛情。在大學，想更加深入地了解漂亮的同學，就像導游似的在市里瞎轉，這些也是愛情。一個典型的員工娶到一位有地位的女孩，或者是坐在海灘上?想以后有很多孩子也是真正的愛情，這樣的典型太多了!
就此，列夫?托爾斯泰說：“不同的人，不同的思想，不同的心地，造就不同的愛情。”
現在我就我的經歷來說幾句話吧。我的愛情總是建立在友情的希望基礎之上，也許，大多數家庭的愛情存在著一團糟，相互依附，煩惱和反復的狀態。但是，那不關我的事，我是在我第一次離開姐姐的時候，我才體會到愛情的真正含義。
真正的友情來自特殊的關系。大家都明白--姐姐是最更了解我們的人，她們把她們的希望、擔憂和愛情等所有事都和我們一起分享。
我的缺點就是很容易陷入愛情的深淵。盡管我的戀愛故事都不怎么成功，可是我還是很喜歡寫寫我的愛情故事。出生后，我就很早擁有了一份愛情，我還算是一個很幸運的家伙。
我總是想找一個我喜歡的，而且像我姐姐那樣的女孩。不好意思，我正在和一個女孩談戀愛。戀愛沒有肌膚之親，讓我們都找到一個女孩吧，比我大兩三歲或小兩三歲都可以。我的生命有六個選擇，大多數都是“沙麗克米茲”(“沙麗克米茲”是一款印度服裝)，像我姐姐一樣。為了能明白一個問題，她們在同一時間說話時都很勇敢，簡而言之，他們都很像我姐姐。
這是什么意思呢?因為他們的某些特點，我們愛上他們，甚至你查點下你的經歷后，你都會同意我的看法--我們愛的人有一些與眾不同的特點和個性。
我不知道什么是愛情?也不知道什么是友誼?我什么都不知道。我只知道我想要一個了解我情感、脾氣、缺點和我的人。如果我想和她說話，想見她，也不需要任何理由。我之所以一直在尋找一個可以嫁給我的愛人，是因為如果我想和她說話的話，這并不需要她丈夫的許可。
我們真的不懂，可我們還總是認為愛情、友誼和婚姻在肉體控制而非思想上最起碼有點差別。你的愛人是你的力量，她是你存在的理由。
伯特蘭?羅素說：“愛情不只是有性欲望，男男女女的一生中都要遭受孤獨，而愛情是遠離孤獨的最好方法。”
你們的愛情可能有一天會給你帶來傷痛，但是，萬事都是有始也有終的。甚至，有一天，我姐姐要嫁人，我愛的人卻說她想我們做朋友而不是做戀人。在我需要的時候，她能夠和我聊天，我已經很高興了，我也沒有為她做些什么。世界上有很多人不喜歡我，毫無理由地喜歡上我的也寥寥無幾。
我們需要感謝生活給了我們如此美麗和善良的感情，如果你是12到28歲的人的話，你會明白這些話的。一旦你失去了愛情，你就會理解我至今都還不明白的這個事實。
如果今天你想去見你的真愛的話，那就捎帶著我最美好的祝福吧!
