A person’s purest charm comes from his manners.

一個人最根本的魅力，來自他的修養。

This kind of charm doesn’t need any decoration. It comes out of your heart and reaches directly into others’ hearts.

這種魅力不需要任何外在的修飾，它發源于內心，也直抵其他人的心。

Spending time with someone who has good manners makes one feel comfortable.

與一個有教養的人相處，會讓人覺得舒服。

And isn’t comfort what we want the most in our daily life?

而舒服難道不是我們在生活中最想得到的東西嗎?

People like this know how to stand in others’ shoes. They know when they should reach out a helping hand.

這樣的人，知道怎樣站在別人的角度想問題，知道什么時候應該伸出援手。

And what is the most basic manner that one can have?

而一個人最基本的修養是什么?

It’s knowing to respect people.

那就是懂得尊重。

No one can survive in this world all by himself. We all need help sometimes.

沒有誰能獨立地生活在這個世界上，我們總會在某些時候需要別人的幫忙。

And it takes respect to make others help you.

而讓別人幫忙的前提，就是尊重。

Respect is the most baseline manner.

尊重，是最基本的修養。

And manner is the last kind of charm which a person can afford to lose.

而修養，是最不可或缺的魅力。